“Some people didn’t know if they had an interest in kink, but making it more palatable, making it something you could actually approach, and also providing some representation so, that way, people know kink is for Black people; kink is for women; kink is for femme-of-center folks, and that we can find liberation, joy, enjoyment, pleasure, power in this as well.”

“I specialize in delivering training, workshops, and lectures on different topics under the umbrella of sexuality. I can fit damn near anything under that umbrella. All of my content is presented with intention and an intersectional lens.”

“And when we have these conversations, when we approach sex and sexuality in a comprehensive, positive, inclusive way, we actually shift the narrative of our society and we shift the narrative of our culture.”

“With knowledge of self as the root of communication, you position yourself to be receptive to fruits of relationships that are happy and healthy.”

“Fluid bonding is the intentional decision not to use barrier methods when engaging in sex that can result in the exchange of fluids,”

Choking, aka erotic asphyxiation, edge play, or breath play, “is the act of restricting breath for pleasure.”

“If you aspire to be a top, and the most dominant thing you do is order Starbucks, bring that energy to the bedroom."

“Keep in mind that a kink is different than a fetish though. A fetish is “an extreme amount of interest in a person, a thing, or a non-sexual body part.”

An aphrodisiac is a substance thought to “encourage and/or increase libido, aka the energy and desire to have sex, and increase arousal."